McKenzie
and I don’t get to spend much time together in person anymore.
That
first summer over three years ago when Nourish RDs was born, McKenzie had a
permanent bedroom at our home, complete with a duvet of pale yellow—her favorite
color. Over hours perched cross-legged
on the sofa with laptops and coffee and long walks around Bellingham Bay, we
laughed hysterically and shed equally as many tears as we planned and dreamed,
bravely (but not fearlessly) creating the business and life we wanted.
When
we wrote that first blog
post, we knew we wanted the Nourish blog to be an extension of our business, a virtual place where people
could come for encouragement and inspiration, a place supporting our heartfelt
wish for everyone to stop making food so complicated already and to just eat
real food and share it with those you love.
We’d share the truth (as we see it) about nutrition, and how to love
yourself from the inside out—and stop being so hard on yourself. We’d share recipes that make it less
intimidating to eat well, with an emphatic assertion that food that’s good for
you should taste good.
And
no, you don’t have to give up bread.
Have
we succeeded? We keep working on it.
This
past weekend, I flew to California to meet McKenzie and we arrived together at The Big Traveling Potluck,
a weekend of community and inspiration and sharing meals with like-minded food
lovers—other food bloggers. We wanted to
see if we were doing this whole blog thing right. And maybe make a few friends in the process.
Since
we didn’t know anyone else at the event, that first night was a little overwhelming at the beginning. However, we quickly found friendly faces
among the crowd at Callaway Winery,
and ended up having dinner with Dre and Renee from Earthbound Farm and chatting with Amelia
from Eating
Made Easy, who has a really great nutrition blog debunking nutrition
myths. You should read her blog, too.
scenic view from Plateau Edge |
The
next day—unseasonably cold for an April day in the California dessert—found
everyone seeking warmth in the sun at the scenic Plateau Edge. Over a breakfast of chilaquiles, hot coffee
and an amazing array of sweet offerings from Potluckers, we discovered Karen’s
fascinating search for the truth
behind her grandmother’s death, in the mountains of western North Carolina. There’s more to food bloggers than just food.
The Big Traveling Potluck is not a structured, stiff conference. It feels more like a casual weekend with friends who share a common passion. But, there are speakers. And the speakers were amazing and brave and moving.
The Big Traveling Potluck is not a structured, stiff conference. It feels more like a casual weekend with friends who share a common passion. But, there are speakers. And the speakers were amazing and brave and moving.
Aron
of Cannelle et Vanille spoke
poignantly about the perils of striving for perfection—in blogging and writing
and photography and life. And how, perhaps
giving up (at least some of) the pursuit for perfection and realizing the juxtaposition
of beauty and imperfection frees us to
see—and be or write—our truth.
Ashley
of Not
Without Salt persuaded us to date our blog, just like we would court a
loved one. To give it attention and
kindness and heed our intuition when we sense our direction should shift, change, as our relationship—with our blog, with our readers—changes. It's like anything else in life—whatever we give our attention and energy to flourishes.
Cheryl
of 5Second Rule gave
both an insightful workshop and inspiring talk on the craft of writing,
reminding us of the power of storytelling. She explained when we take our readers on a journey of
discovery, we all gain something in the process. For it's really the stories that matter—stories make blogging different from reading a cookbook, or even a magazine. Through our stories, our shared experiences, we grow together.
Hearing
those three speakers talk about the struggle between privacy and authenticity,
art and convention, striving forward or holding back reminded us of the power of
the words and photographs we use to reach people, and to hold that sacred, both
for ourselves and for our readers.
There
were lighthearted workshops, too.
Jordan and Jocelyn from This Girl Walks into a Bar showed us how to bottle cocktails, which we are so doing in a post coming soon. Maggie from Eat Boutique graciously shared how to give love by personally packaging simple food gifts, like the citrus sea salt and lavender sugar we bottled. And Deb and Rod from Smith Bites held a three-hour workshop on shooting (professional-looking) videos for our sites. What could have been an awkward team experience with strong-minded entrepreneurs was warm and supportive and continued to build new friendships.
Did I mention we ate well? Really well.
At
the end of the weekend, we walked away with two things. Okay three.
First, being a food blogger isn’t just writing about food. It’s about creating an authentic conversation
between us and our readers that is beneficial to both of us. You know, like a relationship.
Jordan and Jocelyn from This Girl Walks into a Bar showed us how to bottle cocktails, which we are so doing in a post coming soon. Maggie from Eat Boutique graciously shared how to give love by personally packaging simple food gifts, like the citrus sea salt and lavender sugar we bottled. And Deb and Rod from Smith Bites held a three-hour workshop on shooting (professional-looking) videos for our sites. What could have been an awkward team experience with strong-minded entrepreneurs was warm and supportive and continued to build new friendships.
Jordan and Jocelyn from This Girl Walks Into a Bar |
citrus sea salt and lavender sugar, ideas from Maggie from Eat Boutique |
Rose from Our Lady of Second Helpings, at our video demo |
ice cream break |
whole roasted cauliflower and flatbread at Saturday night's dinner |
brunch on Sunday |
We
hope you feel that way. We
feel that way about you.
Second,
food bloggers are really nice. We met
some really lovely people—people we were drawn to and hope we continue to get to know
better. Our reading list grew, too.
Lastly and most importantly, McKenzie and I got to spend a weekend together, nourishing our
friendship and remembering why we started this whole crazy game in the first
place.
best friends and business partners |
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A
great big Thank You! to all of the
sponsors who gifted us with so many goodies and helped make the weekend
possible. Gourmet Garden, Sabra, Earthbound
Farm, KitchenAid USA, OXO, California
Ripe Olives, Kerrygold and Fork in the Road. These are all companies with outstanding
products we love and use. And we’re not
being paid to say that.